Debonair

A man's worth is determined not by his money power, mental abilities or his physical superiority but by his service to mankind. There may be Heroes, Villains, and Vagabonds in society. A man's goodness is measured by his attitude to the society as a whole or by his service-oriented nature. Servility is often mistaken as feminine traits.

Cosy ??? :

How much I longed for cosiness in my life .if money brings comfort life would have been made. One needs to strive hard to make a name for oneself in the society by sincere efforts and steadfastness. Being a member of a community helps one a lot in the social diaspora and frequent get togetherness of friends and relatives make one's feet grounded and would be able to pace his life in a conventional manner. Outcast won't get a lifestyle befitting his caliber in this unjust world. My advise to those who are single is to be a part of the herd and not stray...

Monogamy - A Sermon

A man or woman will find ways and means to indulge in small pleasures. God has made them in such a way that he or she can indulge in sexual pleasures only for a short time in a day which will satisfy them for a longer period and make them responsible thereby enabling them to do other activities wholeheartedly. some people indulge in it very often because they live in a secluded society and has no social obligations namely filmstars, musicians and pornstars. Either they must be doing it for sheer pleasure or they are doing it for money. sex with an unknown person like the one-night stand is just to satisfy the sexual urge. For monogamous relation they must have a mental bonding and must respect each other and should be committed.commitment is a responsible thing and that gives meaning to every Individuals life. I had vouched strongly for commitment so that it will last forever and instill discipline in one's life and that gives a new meaning.Monogamous relationship should be the Criteria for every young couple which will help in creating a healthy social fabric and bestow their offspring a wholesome environment

Sophistication

Is it a Genetic aspect or is it achieved through mental discipline? The style it exudes is something only Rarest of the Rare can attain especially the fairer sex of the Elite class. They spent their time and energy in creating a niche in their own social spheres by taking up a profession or job befitting their status in society. They must have spent their time and energy and would have burnt the Midnight Oil to attain what a mere mortal can only dream of.I reckon this is due to physical and mental discipline and destiny plays a part. I admire Sophisticated people for their Gentility and Aesthetic sense. They are the face of Modern India and their well being is their own priority and not necessarily that of others. 

To get into groove

The word Sex is Taboo in India though everyone vouch for it in a decent way. In India, people treat it as a sacred thing and indulge in it according to the culture and custom of the society. Some treat it as the only means of recreation and spend time and money on multiple partners and on same sex. This will create a chaotic situation and leads to total disarray of social fabric and customs. The people have a responsibility in keeping a check on it by imparting knowledge on the subject to the new generation and thereby keeping the tradition alive.

Moron

There is a child in every man and they also say child is the father of man .Even After attaining spiritual wisdom one may fall for the vagaries of life namely the three vices :-women,wealth and wine not necessarily in the same order.I have travelled across many places of religious and historical importance and places of worship but I never came across a whimsical young guy like me with a roving eye roaming without a companion whereas all saints and fanatics might have chosen this path after going through the vicissitudes of life .On the contrary I opted this just for the heck of it to fight my loneliness.Maybe that is the reason why I often gets enchanted by gentility.I was leading a monk's life not by fate but deliberately to get more blessings to achieve some personal goals like sexual gratification through marrying my soul partner who only can provide me the Oasis-The comfort and liberation Iam seeking.....

Fly Away

Oh, what a boring life !!! Many a time in Everybody's life one would have felt this situation and would have thought of inventing new ways to fight this dreaded Menace. its menace because one tends to meander into the usual ways of fighting the boredom i.e lust, Anger and Greed which will completely destroy a human beings Equilibrium. Then he tries to find a new passion or would try to develop a wholesome habit which can be productive or creative. When a person who doesn't have any menial jobs in hand and was confined to a room or Jail the Only Positive thing he would have is to look out for some greenery for relief. Then  he would envy the birds flying around and must have thought if only he had Wings

Kudachadri -एक safar

Mookambika - it was a memorable trip.I boarded the train from Bangalore and got down at Mangalore. I didn't have to go to bus Adda to catch a bus to kollur rather the bus which was going to Mookambika Temple was lying there near the Railway station. I got in and embarked on a journey to seek the blessings of Amma. Though I don't like long bus journey this time I enjoyed it only because of the sheer determination to visit the Shrine.it egged me on and was an eventful trip. Usually every year I used to go to kollur with my family and all the while we visited only the temple but this time I decided to go to Kudachadri which is a divine place where the Devi was said to have disappeared when Adi Sankara looked back. The trip from the temple premises to the sanctum sanctorum-kudachadri was a fantastic Experience. I was accompanied by a Young girl and her family along with Some guys from Kannur.it was real fun and sort of a Roller Coaster Ride for us. The terrain is very rough and only the uncanny skill of the driver took us there safely. we alighted from the jeep and spent some time on the Hillock and paid obeisance to the deities in the midst of sightseeing and birdwatching. We reached the temple Surroundings safely. A voyage rather a pilgrimage was fantastic and I would suggest every Hindu -

Visit Kudachadri at least once in a lifetime.

Prevention is better than Cure

Terrorism is an issue looming large like Damocles sword on us. Every day we hear news about some terrorist strikes from different parts of the world. How can we prevent this? This is an issue vexing our Intelligence.we can always take adequate measures against any attack by beefing up the security and be alert. But to a certain extend terrorism is our own Brainchild.it occurs only when something is denied or someone is oppressed. In recent past, all acts of terrorism were some way or other related to Foreign Insurgents. For us they are terrorists but they themselves believe they are jihadis.

Love ! Can it happen?

𐃆Marriage is said to be made in heaven though it has nothing to do with it. Whether one should vouch for Arranged marriage or love marriage is a question. I strongly believe in love marriage because there should be a Compatibility between the couples who get into wedlock. As we can see most Arranged marriages are successful because they have the backing of parents and relatives. Love can happen in Arranged marriage as well, its all about understanding each other's Aspirations, likes, and needs. In a society where the word "love" is Taboo, Marriages are mostly arranged with the consent of the parents/relatives whereas love marriages often end in failure after some time when the expectations before marriage are not met and also when the society doesn't heed to them. Then it will be difficult for them to lead a happy married life.

Indianness losing its Sheen ?

Eroding values in the Indian society can disintegrate the nation in the long process and can lead to chaos.In neighbouring china though they are progressing in every spheres we can find young girls extending sexual favours to earn some dollars.On the contrary our strong family values will stand in good stead in this neo-liberal era irrespective of Bollywood and Globalisation.This will help us to become the cultural hub of this world and we have to preserve it.